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H-U-G-S ——-The More You Give—-The More You Get!

October 31st, 2008

How many of us couldn’t use a hug on a daily basis———-well, when you get out of bed as part of your daily practice in the morning wrap your arms around yourself and just say “Good Morning—-What a Great Day to be Alive!!!!”

Your goal for the week ——–if you choose to accept it— is
to try to hug at least 10 people per day. You might just start with 5 but see if you can increase it to 10—-it is kind of like working out but instead of developing your physical body you are developing the emotional part of yourself. I do not know anyone who does not enjoy a hug——–it just makes a closer connection on a different level rather than just shaking hands.

When I meet people and they put their hand out, I usually tell them I am a “Hugger” and ask if I can give them a Hug. You will be able to notice how comfortable people are with hugging by the following:

The A-Frame Hug—-

It is the person who will just allow you to

hug from the shoulders, and keeps large spaces

between your bodies—-like the letter “A”.

The Teddy Bear Hug—-

Just a genuine hug that feels relaxed and

comfortable with very little space between

the two people—-like you use to hug your

“Teddy Bear”–it makes you happy and playful.

The Spiritual Hug—–

A hug where you greet each other in a

comfortable manner—breathe deeply

a couple of times to make an

inner connection and then separate.

What type of hugger are you? The more you practice the better you get. Start by hugging yourself and then at least 5 others per day and you will see how great you feel, and probably really make someone’s day by making a connection. Remember———————— “A Hug a Day Keeps The Doctor Away!!!!!”

Fran Buckless has been a coach and educator for over 30 years. She has just started a newsletter, “All About Caring”, on her website http://www.myallaboutcaring.com. Her goal is to remind people that there is someone out there that cares about them and their needs. Fran comes from a spiritual background, and believes in helping others through a variety of ways. If you need a “pick me up” or something that will make you “think”, read one of her articles. She is just like you, and will try to relate some of her experiences knowing that there are others who are going through the same thing. She is also committed to helping you find other people who come from integrity in a variety of fields—–people that you don’t have to search for but can trust. If you like honesty, you will like what she has to write about. She is truly inspirational, and has a bigger heart than anyone I know.

Love Thy Neighbor

October 31st, 2008

I would like to take a moment to write about our neighbors. We all have them. They could live right next door to you or miles away. We all still have them. The bible quotes, you should love your neighbor as yourself. I was always taught from a very, yong age to help and respect your neighbors and people in general. Back in the old days people depended on the help of their neighbors and you could always depend on them in return. I am pretty lucky to have the neighbors I have. I am surrounded by good people. I would like to think I have also been a good neighbor.
Where I live now, I am surrounded by people, living in an apartment really puts you up close and personal to everyone who lives around you.

There are some people that live around me that I don’t know at all, then there are acquaintances and people I only know in passing. then there are people who are the epitome of what good neighbors should be. Then again there are others who crossed that bridge between neighbor and friend. Now of course in every situation you can have your trouble makers who it seems that there soul purpose in life is to know everyone’ s business and spread it around, adding some onto it as it is being told.

I think there are a few simple rules to follow in being a good neighbor. I will share that with you all now. For one, treat your neighbor as you expect to be treated, have respect and show it, be helpful especially to children and the elderly, do not spread gossip, it usually isn’t true, don’t start rumors, keep your disagreements to your selves, without involving everyone else, rumors can be very damaging to ones character and reputation, why do you think we have this nice little law called..defamation of character? Discipline your own children and leave mine to me, I personally don’t like it when someone else tries to tell my kids what to do and how to behave. And when other people try to control my child. Most kids have their own parents, they wouldn’t be living her if they didn’t. When approaching someone about an issue, do it in a kind and respectful way, as you would wish it be brought to you. Don’t be accusing when doing it. When someone has a suggestion for you don’t get defensive and angry right off the bat, be open to what is being said. It is a lot easier to work out if you don’t get upset right a way. Don’t constantly involve your landlord in petty arguments, we are all adults it is time to act like it. Have respect for the ones who do your upkeep and maintenance, they have a lot of people to please, not just you. Be appreciative when someone does offer help, don’t think they are just being nosy.

I think you get the jist of what I am saying. I have had people knock on the door to use my phone, to borrow this or that, even money. Sometimes they knock just to talk, and I have done the exact things to them. I love helping if I can I will do it, if not I will try my best to find someone who might be able to help. I am very thankful for the neighbors I have and thankful for the wonderful friends I have made. Thanks to all of my neighbors, and God Bless Ya.

Vaughn Pascal

To: God and Jesus; Thank you.

To: Bub; I love you.

Listening to Your Heart!

October 30th, 2008

Trying to predict stock price movements is necessary, of course. After all, when stock prices fall, the cost of borrowing and of issuing new equity can rise, and falling stock prices can both undercut the confidence of employees and customers and handicap mergers. Unfortunately, however, most of these predictions are no more than rough guesses, because the tools CEOs use to make them are not very accurate. Net present value (NPV) may be useful for estimating the long-term intrinsic value of shares, but it is famously unreliable for predicting their price over the next few quarters. Conversations with sample groups of investors and analysts, conducted by the company or by investment bankers, are no more reliable for gauging market reactions.

But executives can dramatically improve the accuracy of their predictions. By adopting a more systematic, rigorous approach, corporate leaders can learn to understand individual investors as thoroughly as many companies now understand each of their top commercial customers. It is possible to know such customers well because there are only so many of them. Equally, only a finite number of investors really matter when it comes to predicting stock price movements.

Every CEO knows that when buyers are more anxious to buy than sellers are to sell, share prices riseand that they fall when the reverse happens. But fewer CEOs know that not every buyer or seller matters in this equation. Our research on the changing stock prices of more than 50 large US and European listed companies over two years1 makes it clear that a maximum of only 100 current and potential investors significantly influence the share prices of most large companies. By identifying these critical individual investors and understanding what motivates them, executives can predict how they will react to announcementsand more accurately estimate the direction of stock prices.

Armed with these new and solid insights about how critical investors behave in specific situations, executives can make strategic decisions in a different light. Knowing what makes crucial investors buy, sell, or hold the company’s stock allows CEOs to calculate what its share price might be after an announcement and to factor this calculation into their strategic and operating decisions. To head off short-term selling, a company could manage the timing, pace, or sequencing of strategic announcements. It could introduce a new management team before announcing an acquisition. It could also test an important new product in selected markets before the nationwide rollout. How will investors react to a merger announcement and what will the resulting share price mean for a deal? How might a spin-off fare in the market? Does the company need to prepare the market or to consider a carve-out instead?

A CEO even has the choice of forging ahead in the face of adverse predictions, using the information to manage the expectations of the board. An executive may, for instance, consider bold strategies even though they could push some critical investors to sell the company’s stock.

The few that matter

It should come as no surprise that big trades can significantly move the needle on a company’s stock price. When the Bass family of Texas, for example, sold its stake in Disney, in September 2001, in response to a margin call, Disney’s stock fell by 8 percent.

But typically, short-term changes in a company’s stock price aren’t the result of a single big trade. For the 50 companies whose quarterly stock price variations we studied, we consistently found that the majority of unique changes in each company’s stock price resulted from the net purchases and sales of the stock by a limited number of investors who traded in large quantities. (By “unique changes,” we mean those occurring relative to the rest of the market. In other words, they do not include price bumps or falls that coincided with the overall movements of the market or the sector.)

Although the number of crucial investors in a company ranged from as few as 30 to (more typically) as many as 100, in each case this set of actors had a dramatic impact on share prices. In the companies we studied, we could attribute from 60 to 80 percent of all unique changes, quarter by quarter, to the net trading imbalances of these investors.

Industrial marketing for investors

Few companies today get to know their top investors well enough to predict with any accuracy what will make those investors buy or sell more of their shares. The CFO of a large financial company, which was about to announce the divestiture of a major division, believed that he was “right on top of [our] investor base.” Indeed, in a general way, the company’s executives knew the big investors wellwhat they thought of management, the creditworthiness of the company, and so on. But executives didn’t know what investors thought about specific potential strategies, such as a divestiture. Was the offer price that executives were considering above or below the value investors attributed to the unit when those investors calculated the company’s total value? Or did investors think that the company benefited from cross-divisional synergies that would end with the divestiture?

To develop the ability to make predictions about shareholders, companies should identify their stock price movers and calculate how many additional shares would be offered or sought in reaction to specific announcements. Through background analysis and interviews, the companies must then analyze in depth the trading behavior of these movers, developing trading profiles for each of them. Finally, companies should use the information in the profiles to predict which movers would be likely to react to specific corporate announcements by selling or buying in the short term and then calculate what this would mean for share prices.4

Getting to know investors isn’t a one-shot process. Companies must continually reexamine who is moving their sharesinvestors come and go. An ongoing dialogue with the movers deepens the knowledge of these companies and, over time, sharpens their ability to predict the actions of their critical investors. However, most companies will need to beef up their investor relations capabilities to get the job done. The good news: getting started isn’t a mammoth task. Two to three months should be enough to develop an initial set of profiles of the most important investors.

Identify the critical investors

A company should begin its assessment by asking who has the potential to move its stock price. Some of the movers could be among the company’s largest current shareholders. Some may be smaller holders who want to increase their ownership. And some are potential large players who do not yet own any of the company’s stock but could purchase or short it in large quantities. What do these movers have in common? They are active stock-portfolio managers who regularly buy and sell large quantities of shares in the company or in similar companiestypically, managers of mutual, pension, or hedge funds or even individual large investors.

In other words, investors who count have both weight and a propensity to throw it around. Although the actual calculations needed to put together the list of movers are complicatedrequiring more discussion than we can present in this articlea likely mover is someone who does or could reasonably account for at least 1 percent of a stock’s trading volume for one quarter.

Movers are not necessarily a company’s largest investors. Shareholders (such as family holdings or trusts) that have owned big blocks of the company’s stock for a long time don’t move it quarter to quarter. Neither do index funds unless the company is added to or dropped from an important index (or unless the fund’s assets change dramatically). Among the largest 20 investors of one big pharmaceuticals company we studied, only 10 were movers, and this proved to be typical of the companies we studied. What is more, nearly half of the large movers of the stock of the pharmaceuticals company over eight quarters from 1999 to 2001 weren’t listed among its 20 largest investors during any single quarter.

Moreover, companies should add potential investors to the list of movers. For a large chemical business in our study, we analyzed the way the positions of investors in other chemical businesses changed over time. One investor, a $22 billion investment fund, had been an active trader in other, similar chemical companies and liked to buy assets at the bottom of a cycle. At the time, the sector was depressed, so for this and other reasons we added the investor to the company’s list of movers. A few months later, the investor purchased more than five million of the company’s shares.

Potential movers include those who have made money investing in other industries in similar circumstances. Investors who bet on the right players in an industry that consolidated, for example, may now be eyeing investments in other sectors on the verge of consolidation. Potential movers may also be investors who purchased shares in a company’s upstream or downstream suppliers and have a history of investing more broadly in the value chain. Some may have a taste for betting on companies that use certain capital models (high cash flow, say, or high leverage), have new CEOs, or face particular market changes or competitive conditions.

To determine how many investors should go on the list40? 70? 100? A company should test the accuracy of its predictions over previous quarters to arrive at the number that works best. Too few will yield poor correlations between activity and stock prices; too many will add to the cost and complexity of the process. In addition, the list changes frequently. Our experience suggests that a mover typically stays on such lists for six quarterslong enough to give the company time to become familiar with it but short enough so that there will always be new movers to study.

Moving the movers

Once a company has identified its movers, the next step is to develop thorough profiles of all of them. Companies begin by conducting an “outside-in” analysis of each one, including its stated investment criteria and objectives and its trading patterns. Discussions with every investor give a company a chance to fill in the gaps in its understanding of its movers and to confirm its hypotheses about what they trade and why.

The resulting profile should first describe how an investor makes decisions. What does the investor want to invest in, using what valuation methodologies? How is it likely to react to events or to data, which after all can be interpreted in many ways? Are its investments subject to any constraints, such as their size and frequency? Second, the profile should describe each investor’s views on issues that the company might facesuch as any new strategies (for instance, whether the company should go into China), earnings surprises, and changes in management.

To get this kind of information, companies must phrase the questions carefully in view of a US Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) regulation that prohibits companies from disclosing material information to some but not all investors.5 Typically, indirect questions work best. A company might ask investors why they purchased or sold their holdings in a particular business, for instance. But the company would actually be trying to understand why they sold their holdings after the business announced, for example, that it was investing in China. Do the investors dislike the risks that are associated with China, distrust the management team put in place to manage expansion in Asia, or reject specific details of the disclosed plan?

Making predictions

With the movers identified and profiled, the investor relations staff and executives can make reasonable judgments about who will sell, buy, and hold. This process isn’t merely a mathematical exercise, though it does involve many calculations.

Besides assessing whether each investor will approve or disapprove of a given announcement, executives must estimate how many shares the investor is likely to buy or sell. They can be guided in these estimates by such details as the average trade the investor makes and whether the investor historically “bleeds” (buys and sells incrementally over time) or “blasts” (buys and sells quickly and in large blocks).

Although the process itself is straightforward, making these predictions can be quite complex. Nonetheless, several companies we have worked with have done the necessary calculations and used the information to guide their strategic decisions. One company, recognizing that it would take a hit, decided that it could do little about this except to prepare and manage its board. (In this case, estimates of what would happen to the stock price were extraordinarily accurate.) Another company decided to postpone a restructuring when it realized how far its stock price was likely to fall. In a third case, two companies were about to announce that they were merging. But the estimated dip in the acquirer’s stock price after the announcement could have affected the deal (an equity and cash buy), so executives at the two companies used the profiles to identify investors who should be reached immediately and individually. Profiling also helped the companies tailor their communications to those investors.

Even if no immediate decisions are pending, a company should try to predict probable moves by investors on a quarterly basis if not more often. Accuracy improves with practice.

Building the capabilities

Companies that choose to adopt an industrial-marketing approach to investor relations will need to make at least two key changes. The first is to stop viewing the market as a monolithic entity that is judging a company’s performance in an adversarial way. When the company’s stock price changes, executives shouldn’t ask why the market moved; they should pinpoint who bought, who sold, and why. In fact, managers should view investors much as managers in private companies view their corporate ownersand understand them just as well.

Have you ever found yourself in a tussle between heart and brain? It happens when your heart wants to go in one direction and your brain to another. This happens, not only once but several times, whether is a case of expressing your love, whether is a case of selecting or rejecting a candidate, whether it is to accept or reject a proposal, you name it and there are several occasions, where you heart want to do something and your brain another thing.

If you listen to your heart, you know what brings you joy, peace, beauty, and love. So why wouldn’t we want to do this? Most of us have been taught to distrust our heart. Our heart will lead us astray we have been told, and cause us pain. It is our mind, teachers have told us that must be developed and followed. Much of what we have been taught can be attributed to the patriarchal philosophy that has dominated our world thinking for the past 2000 years. The masculine orientation, historically, has honored intellect over emotions, observation and measurement, through use of our five senses, over intuition and knowing.

To listen to your heart, you need to be a good listener.

When you find yourself engaged in an activity that allows your head to take a break, and the experience brings you a sense of joy and passion like you haven’t experienced in years, that’s your heart speaking to you. For example, you travel someplace that causes you to slow down, breathe and immerse yourself in the beauty of a region and suddenly you feel alive. Or you participate in a hobby or new activity and find that you love the experience, losing all track of time. The experience itself is uplifting and you feel happiness and more energy. That’s your heart calling you.

When your heart calls you to bring more passion and joy into your life, you have a couple of choices:

1. Ignore it and keep on living like you’re living

2. Move to a monastery3. Get some awareness and clarity about what it is you really want in your lifeand then take action and get support to live the life of your dreams.

Who is right, the heart or the brain???

Your heart speaks in metaphors, analogies and images of possibilitythe possibility of you stepping into your full potential and becoming who you are meant to be. Your head tries to find reasons and rationale to make that picture a reality, and as it tries to figure out how to “solve this challenge”, inevitably fears, limitations and doubts surface within its borders. Your head is not against your heart — it’s simply trying to protect you from getting hurt and it’s doing its job by going through a logical, rational thought process.

When you allow your head to see the essence of the vision of what your heart is sharing with you, and you begin to believe that it’s possible to make it happen, your head begins to partner with your heart and looks for ways to make the dream a reality. The simple act of believing and trusting is the bridge between your head and heart.

When it is a time to listen to your heart…

It’s a very individual process and will be different for each person. However, two things awakened us:

1) The pain of where we were became greater than the fear of change

2) The signs and signals around us could no longer be ignored (a multitude of coincidences that pointed us to Hawaii, contacting our real estate agent to begin exploring possibilities and ending up with an offer at a ridiculously high profit within 4 hours of the call, etc.)

When we allowed our heads to believe that what our hearts were telling us could be real, and we felt supported enough in that belief, then we could cross the bridge of possibility to transform our lives. Courage is not the absence of fear, but the decision that there is something more important than fear. Why people are so afraid to listen to heart…

Fears that surface when following your heart can be around

- “What will others think?”
- “How will we succeed?”
- “How will we prosper?”
- “This is not logical/rational/practical”
- etc

Yet anything you fear losingmoney, status/position, reputation, etc.is simply coming from the ego and from the need for symbols of external power. What we really fear when any of us follow our hearts is an increase in our vulnerability, because the kind of power we are embracing is INTERNAL, and not normally recognized in the outside world.

But the way of fear and doubt is a powerless dead end. The reality is that you have all the power you need at your disposal all the time, if you only recognize it and use it. The power is within you.

You cannot gain more personal power by refusing to recognize your fears, by anesthetizing yourself to what you feel. The road to authentic power is always through what you feel, through your heart. In the heart, we experience emotions. Emotions reflect intentions. Therefore, an awareness of your emotions leads to awareness of intentions and when you choose to create with the intentions of belief, trust, love and clarity, you gain personal power. When you align your thoughts, emotions and actions with the highest parts of yourself, you are filled with enthusiasm, purpose and meaning.

Conclusion

My heart always spoke to me and captured my attention helping me to follow my life’s journey. This was often at the disappointment of my family and friends who wanted me to be more rational. The intellect must be used to inform us of our physical world’s teachings and information, but it is our heart that must guide us, integrating the energy of our soul as superior to that of our personality/intellect. Our heart heals us and keeps us in communion with energy of our soul. The heart is also our barometer for helping us know what is important to us from an emotional and spiritual perspective. If we do not listen to our heart, we deny ourselves valuable feedback and guidance.

From an energetic perspective, the heart is the center of the human energy system. It has wisdom; it is the energetic center of love, and knowing. How tragic, that our society has taught us to distrust the callings of our heart. We often work when we need to rest, eat when we are not hungry, and laugh when we want to cry, remain angry when we need to forgive. It is our intellect that drives us to prove ourselves when our heart may be broken, feels rejected or unworthy. The intellect/personality knows only fear and lack.

The heart is love. If we listened to our heart, our world and ourselves would be much different. We are all so afraid, and all so much the same. We are often afraid to trust, or believe in goodness and mercy, love and light, peace, joy and healing. In truth, this is why we have come to earth to overcome all fear and sense of lack in order that our soul could have that experience of overcoming. The physical body is the vehicle of experience. The third dimension or our physical world is the only dimension in which this can occur. If we suppress our heart’s wisdom, we drive ourselves beyond our limits, often injuring our physical bodies and our mental and emotional well being. We fail to forgive, and nurture and honor ourselves. We fail to live with an open heart.

Second, companies will need to overhaul their investor relations units. In the vast majority of companies today, the investor relations function is largely administrative: it oversees the production, but not always the content, of regulatory and annual reports; it administers the registry of shareholders and sets up investor road shows, visits by analysts, and conferences; and it talks to shareholderswhen they call.

Instead, the investor relations unit will have to take on a more strategic role, almost as an adjunct to strategic planning. It will be responsible for managing the key-account process to identify movers and understand their behavior. Its staff will have to test all major plans and announcements for their effect on the price of the company’s shares and suggest modifications to those plans to bring them into better alignment with the views of key shareholders. Indeed, for the first time, the investor relations unit will become an important adviser to the CEO.

But this approach calls for investor relations leaders who can stand up to the CEO and deliver bad news when necessary. They will also have to be capable of handling tough interviews with investors who are pressing them for information they cannot divulge under SEC regulations or for competitive reasons. Sharp, independent, and analytical investor relations directors may emerge from the ranks of business development, strategic planning, or even, in some instances, internal auditing.

Have a great time and pleaseee…Pleaseee…do take care of your good self.

Looking forward to your feedback.

With lots of Love and care

Sanjeev Sharma
(Pune-India)
(+91-9890788259 or 9850884378)

For Old Time’s Sake

October 29th, 2008

Direct Answers - Column for the week of August 19, 2002

I am currently going through a divorce, and we’ve been negotiating the terms of the settlement for a year and a half without agreement. I have started a relationship with another woman, but I’m in a saddening, irresponsible situation that was mischievously planned by the ex.

About four months ago I went to the ex’s to pick up our two young children. She begged me to have sex with her one last time, and she swore she would leave me alone forever if I did this. She desperately begged, begged, and begged.

I told her it was over. I told her it didn’t make any sense. But I was a stupid irresponsible idiot and gave into her, thinking I would get rid of her once and for all. Right after, I knew I’d made another stupid mistake.

About a month later, in an odd and happy manner, she told me she was pregnant. Under the circumstances I thought she should be devastated. I’m angry because I know she planned this to make me go back to her. That couldn’t be further from what I want.

Outside of this incident, I hadn’t touched her in over a year. This mistake happened only because I wanted her to leave me alone forever as she promised. I know I’m partly to blame because no one put a gun to my head. If this child is mine, I will pay for my legal responsibilities.

Anyway, I want to grow in my relationship with this other woman. I have known her for six years, and we connect on all levels. But I’ve lost her trust. She wants to be with me, but she is having a difficult time in getting through this and I don’t blame her.

Teddy

Teddy, begging for sex one last time for old time’s sake sounds suspiciously like something a man would say. It is not in a woman’s repertoire. An alarm should have gone off in your head, the one that says the world has suddenly turned upside down.

Even in a situation which was totally unreal you acted like a caveman. The last thing you are going to get from a woman who begs for unprotected sex one last time is left alone. Revenge, pay backs, and blackmail maybe. But left alone? Never.

You ignored the alarms about your wife, and you ignored the alarms about ruining your new relationship. I understand why your girlfriend has a problem with this. The story itself sounds like a male fantasy.

Your girlfriend put herself in an emotionally vulnerable situation because she didn’t wait until you were divorced before getting so deeply involved. What makes it doubly worse for her is that, because of your children, she has no guarantee you won’t be “begged” again by your wife.

This isn’t going to end for her. Because of your children, she can’t tell you never to see that woman again. Your girlfriend may very well decide this is not something she is going to be able to endure. It’s for her to decide. You showed a lack of character. This is really about doing the right thing in each moment.

Tamara

Doing The Math

My boyfriend purchased a house three years ago for $380,000. He put $20,000 down. He plans to refinance for $400,000. He plans an addition to the house for $50,000. How much should I pay to become equal partner?

Cornelia

Cornelia, this sounds like one of those algebra word problems I could never solve. If John is twice as old as Ted, and Roberto is five years older than John, how old is Ted’s twin, Chris?

Algebra always confused me, but in this case I think I know the answer. Buying a home with a boyfriend usually turns into a legal problem . Until your status is more permanent, find another way to invest in real estate.

Wayne

About The Author

Authors and columnists Wayne and Tamara Mitchell can be reached at www.WayneAndTamara.com.

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Why Does it Take So Long to Slow Down

October 28th, 2008

Why do we wait so long, before we start thinking about whom and what we are? Why does it take a lifetime of living and struggling before we begin a meaningful search for our truth? I don’t believe that is necessary.

I began my conscious journey to enlightenment when I was around 50 years of age. I was brought up in the churches and believed that it was just one of those things in life that we had to do. Actually I was dragged to church kicking and screaming and later reluctantly went on my own volition from fear and guilt. All of this ritual stuff really didn’t mean much to me at the time and still doesn’t. I now have some understanding of why people go to church and what motivates them. But I still don’t think it is necessary.

Religion, structure, ceremonies, symbols, affirmations, prayers and meditations are steps to get you there (wherever that is); they help focus your mind. I still believe that the shortest distance between to points is in a straight line and more than likely the path of least resistance.

My whole life has been about getting there as fast as I can, until now. I can see with some experience and a little bit of wisdom, that it is the trip that counts not getting there. In fact I don’t think I really want to get there anymore. Once the trip is over there is no where to go.

The physical realm of existence is the most intoxicating; it is where we use our five senses of touch, taste, smell, site and hearing. I can’t imagine being in another place that we don’t use them. This is the dilemma that the creator had before he went into self-discovery; he created the physical world of relativity so that he could look back upon himself and see how magnificent he/she was through the five senses.

Truth is as liquid as the water that surrounds this planet and we create our new truth in every waking moment of every day. At one time our truth was that the world was flat, that truth no longer works for us.

Enlightenment brings new truths into our experience and knowledge or awareness is power. Thought controls all power and awareness of that truth expands our horizons and gives us more choices and freedom.

It was our truth at one time that moving into the industrial revolution would make our lives easier and free us up to have more time to spend on leisure and with our families. Our new truth is that we now must have two working partners in a household so that we can support the machines that are at home taking it easy, spending the day gossiping with each other in our living rooms and kitchens.

My new theory or truth is that we are taking this whole life thing away too seriously. We have forgotten what is really important to us. The technology isn’t working except to keep us alive long enough to pay for it. The trip is not a race, happiness is not found in having the most machines.

Life is a social experience, an interaction between the souls that make up the planet, that is how it was intended and we do not need to live for the machines. It is observable that the happiness that we seek is artificially produced through the drugs that we take to keep us going and awake for a few hours a day. Leisure if forced onto us and more drugs are used to slow us down for a few days that we might take time off for recreation.

Enlightenment moves us away from this vicious cycle and motivates us to begin to enjoy the trip. It is a trip that can last forever if we choose it to be so. Awareness can bring joy and happiness even in this world of chaos and absurdity. It has taken all these years for me to realize that I wasn’t really in a hurry to get here in the first place.

Enlightenment and wisdom does not necessarily come with age, it can be achieved at any age if one slows down long enough to listen to his/her own intuition. The world is the way it is because you and I have allowed ourselves to be caught up in the noise of the rush to get nowhere. We are already where we are trying to get to, to this stage of self awareness.

The peace and happiness that you seek can be obtained in a heart beat if you just stop and listen. The way you are living now is still just a choice and experience that you do not have to accept. The real trip is in knowing what is the real thing and what is more of an illusion of that thing.

You don’t have to wait until you are 50 to begin to understand. Can you imagine what you could really experience as fulfilling and meaningful, what you could create with the wisdom of a 50 year old at the age of twenty? You have heard it before “If only I knew then, what I know now.” I don’t believe that one needs to concern oneself so much with discovery but with the experience of discovery.

Wisdom does not come from churches, philosophers, books or even this article; it comes from the positive application of what you have learned from your life experiences. If something is not working for you, don’t do it anymore. Do not live somebody else’s truth, create your own. Move away from the mind chatter, and take the long way home, learn to enjoy it and stop to smell the flowers. Eliminate all things and all people from your life that lead you away from happiness. Be happy first and you will draw those things and the people into your life that best reflects happiness to you.

Why are you in such a hurry, why?

EzineArticles Expert Author Roy Klienwachter

Roy E. Klienwachter is a resident of British Columbia, Canada. A student of NLP, ordained minister, New Age Light Worker and Teacher. Roy has written and published five books on New Age wisdom. Roy’s books are thought provoking and designed to empower you to take responsibility for your life and what you create. His books and articles are written in the simplicity and eloquence of Zen wisdom.

You may not always agree with what he has to say. You will always come away with a new perspective and your thinking will never be the same.

Roy’s style is hard hitting and comes straight from the heart without all the metaphorical mumble jumble and BS.

Visit Roy at: http://www.klienwachter.com

Use Your Online Marketing Strategies In An Offline World

October 26th, 2008

If your one of those people who love to learn how things work, then you will truly enjoy the way online marketing works.

The thing about this is that you will never quite reach the end of this question with a satisfying answer, because it is continuously evolving and growing, into more interesting things all the time.

Marketing on the Internet is fueled by innovation, creativity, and the linear use of resources to drive traffic, in a funneling fashion, into a site or area of the web.

There are so many different ways to use this marketing infrastructure that its just uncanny!

I got to thinking the other day about the online marketing strategies. I wondered how this type of thing could be applied to the offline world in an efficient way- if even at all.

By the time I finished my thought I realized that realistically it couldn’t because it is a strategy that is dependant on the very infrastructure and synergy that is the Internet networking power.

I guess if you you got enough people together you could do it without the Internet but the speed at which this happens online- you couldn’t really even see it if it weren’t for stats tracking everything!

Great speedboats to be won at Dutch Windeprijsvraag.nl this year

October 25th, 2008

Lots of more funny online contests are choosing to enter online cyber sweepstakes. That should be realy terrific to win tools worth 1294 euro and that easy. Online sweepstakes are also legally different from the contest websites in Fitchburg Massachusetts. Promotions advertised as fun websites, however, can require an entry fee or evidence of buy. Entering sweepstakes by mail is declining in well known popularity at this moment. Online contests are tempered much more differently than the people who win who are not chosen by chance but by an piece of easy skill.

Translated in Ducth is says: Leef jij in Vlagtwedde of Leiderdorp en wil je vaker prijzen winnen’ Met Win de Prijsvraag winnen is nergens zo eenvoudig. Geweldige prijzen winnen met de site van windeprijsvraag.nl‘ Vaak 159 prijzen om het uur. Van Nuenen, Gerwen en Nederwetten tot Simpelveld, winnen met Win de prijsvraag.nl kan hier altijd. Een meneer van 73 heeft afgelopen week nog een fiets gewonnen.

That’s why there are marvelous cash prizes to win at online contest and internet sweepstakes this month. Easy sweepstakes are broadly speaking much more prosperous and much more quicker to enter than online game contests. 10 months ago also a Dutch online company took of a contest website and is also legally indifferently. Cyber sweepstakes and online promotions are proscribed from involving a bribe to enter. Anyone can win super TVs now every 7 hours even if you live in Green Bay Wisconsin or in Minnetonka Minnesota, isn’t that fantastic.

Marriage Ceremony

October 25th, 2008

You must be wondering about the perfect gift that you can give to your near and dear ones, so that they would always remember you. A gift that is perfectly suited for the occasion. Wedding gifts can range from some essential things to a thing of art. It can be a small household appliance, a makeup kit, a watch, jewellery, or may be gift certificates. It can be very fashionable or very antique. They can be of various colours, various shapes but you can’t be sure that they would be liked or cherished. However you may not have another opportunity to change your gift. It would be useless repenting: wish I could have given such a thing… wish I new what they like. There are also people who may refuse to take a gift during a wedding ceremony and then you would be probably in a fix as to what to do. However there is one thing that every body would cherish, there is one thing that you will never feel sorry for. It is a gift which is closer to every body’s heart, touches our innermost feeling. It is a gift which people have trusted for centuries across civilisation. Yes the best gift is to give a bouquet of flowers, beautifully decorated and most fragrantly yours.

Never Too Busy to Listen

October 25th, 2008

Are things busy at your house or workplace? Imagine how in must be at Celestial Control Central:

“Good morning, Gabriel. Let’s go over what’s on the old schedule for today.”

“Yes, Sir. We’ve got a hurricane brewing in the Caribbean, set to hit Haiti with 90-mile-an-hour winds at sunset. Mount Keemakeetoa in Indonesia is going to start belching smoke today and shake a little, but the big eruption is on Friday.”

“What about human activity?”

“As You know, sir, the Middle East is still a hot spot, along with Central Africa and Eastern Europe. That counter-revolutionary group in Peru is planning a strike against Lima in a few days. Beyond those, we have the usual bombings, murders, drunk-drivers, plane crashes, and sinking ships.”

“Hmm.”

“Plus hypocrisies, fallings from grace, heresies, factions, and the common sins of the flesh.”

“Crowded schedule. Review the positive side for Us.”

“There’s a big evangelistic effort going on in Caracas, Venezuela, today. Dozens are hearing the gospel for the first time. A Mrs. Dunlap is having lunch with her neighbor that until today had not spoken to her in 15 years. Two scholars are putting the final touches on a book that will convince
hearts and minds of the authority and inspiration of the Scriptures. And those 37 couples in San Bernadino”

“Excuse me, Gabriel, but Katrina McGee is about to pray. It will only take a few minutes. Then we can finish our meeting.”

“No problem. First things first.”

Gabriel leans back to wait.

The Apostle Peter knew God’s heart when he quoted Ps. 34:16:
“… the eyes of the LORD are on the righteous and his ears are attentive to their prayer.…” (1 Peter 3:12). Since He’s never too busy to listen, and puts no one on hold, let’s pour out
our hearts to Him every day.

EzineArticles Expert Author Steve Singleton


Steve Singleton has written and edited several books and numerous articles on subjects of interest to Bible students. He has taught Greek, Bible, and religious studies courses Bible college, university, and adult education programs. He has taught seminars and workshops in 11 states and the Caribbean.

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Personal Philosophy is Like The Set of The Sail

October 24th, 2008

We have all experienced the blowing winds of disappointment, despair and heartbreak. Why, then, would each of us, in our own individual ship of life, all beginning at the same point, with the same intended destination in mind, arrive at such different places at the end of the journey? Have we not all been blown by the winds of circumstances and buffeted by the turbulent storms of discontent?

What guides us to different destinations in life is determined by the way we have chosen to set our sail. The way that each of us thinks makes the major difference in where each of us arrive. The major difference is the set of the sail.

The same circumstances happen to us all. We have disappointments and challenges. We all have reversals and those moments when, in spite of our best plans and efforts, things just seem to fall apart. Challenging circumstances are not events reserved for the poor, the uneducated or the destitute. The rich and the poor have marital problems. The rich and the poor have the same challenges that can lead to financial ruin and personal despair. In the final analysis, it is not what happens that determines the quality of our lives, it is what we choose to do when we have struggled to set the sail and then discover, after all of our efforts, that the wind has changed directions.

When the winds change, we must change. We must struggle to our feet once more and rest the sail in the manner that will steer us toward the destination of our own deliberate choosing. The set of the sail, how we think and how we respond, has a far greater capacity to destroy our lives than any challenges we face. How quickly and responsibly we react to adversity is far more important than the adversity itself. Once we discipline ourselves to understand this, we will finally and willingly conclude that the great challenge of life is to control the process of our thinking.

Learning to reset the sail with the changing winds rather than permitting ourselves to be blown in a direction we did not purposely choose requires the development of a whole new discipline. It involves going to work on establishing a powerful, personal philosophy that will help to influence in a positive way all that we do and that we think and decide. If we can succeed in this worthy endeavor, the result will be a change in the course of our income, lifestyle and relationships, and in how we feel about the things of value as well as the times of challenge. If we can alter the way we perceive, judge and decide upon the main issues of life, then we can dramatically change our lives.

To Your Success,
Jim Rohn


Reproduced with permission from Jim Rohn’s Weekly E-zine.
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